If you look at ACE’s response, Column W was never meant to be shown in the public version - they dropped the ball by forgetting to follow their standard processes for redacting things at charities’ requests for confidentiality reasons - and the recent deletion was an action they took, not Sinergia.
you can just look at the talk page to see people are leaning this way
Some people are, but I’d say that the overall vibe of that thread is leaning against until at least when it stops being a live issue
No one is critiquing Daniela’s personal life though, they’re critiquing something about her public life (ie her voluntary public statements to journalists) for contradicting what she’s said in her personal life. Compare this with a common reason people get cancelled where the critique is that there’s something bad in their personal life, and people are disappointed that the personal life doesn’t reflect the public persona- in this case it’s the other way around.